Most things we fear never actually come to pass. For example, in the late 19th century, doctors warned women about a new disease called bicycle face. The theory was that when a woman rode a bicycle for an extended time, the facial expression they held throughout the ride would become permanent – flushed face, bulging eyes, clenched jaw. The exertion required to ride the bike would result in lasting disfigurement.
Of course, this wasn’t true, but the fear that it might be discouraged thousands of women from riding their bikes.
Addiction and the discovery of a partner’s addiction produce enough anguish and heartache without adding to the trauma with unnecessary fears. King David knew something about fears when he proclaimed, “He delivered me from my fears” (Psalm 34:4).
Of course, there is a lot more to recovery than overcoming your fears. But your recovery will not be complete while carrying the baggage of fear everywhere you go.
Recovery Step: Surrender your fears to God.
