The secret sauce of recovery is community. You cannot find recovery without it. You were made for community. To try to stay sober on your own is to mock the God who said to “be perfectly united [with others] in mind and thought” (1 Corinthians 1:10).
Daniel Siegel wrote, in Aware, “Relationships are not icing on the cake; they are the cake. In fact, they are the main course as well as the dessert.”
Author Elizabeth Dixon offers three practical steps to build community:
- Work on it.
- Embrace vulnerability.
- Take the small steps.
Community is the secret sauce of recovery. You can try to stay sober on your own. But it won’t work.
Recovery Step: Be intentional about building an authentic circle of community within your recovery world.
Author: Mark Denison
Mark and Beth Denison, married for 36 years, launched There’s Still Hope as a national movement to call men and women into lives of sexual integrity. Their ministry offers 90-day recovery plans for addicts and one-on-one and group coaching for addicts and their spouses. TSH also produces resources for pastors and churches to confront the porn epidemic that is destroying so many lives.
Dr. Denison was a senior pastor for over 30 years, NBA chaplain, and board chairman at Houston Baptist University three times. With a Master’s Degree in Addiction Recovery, Mark is a certified PSAP and active member of the American Association of Christian Counselors.
Mark has written four books on recovery: Porn in the Pew, 365 Days to Sexual Integrity, A 90-Day Recovery Guide, and 40 Days to Porn-Free Living. His latest book, Jesus on the 12 Steps, will be released later this year.
